Pamela Rich Amari

Pamela Rich Amari, a beloved wife, mother, and grandmother, passed away on December 28, 2025, in Slingerlands, NY at the age of 74. Born on August 3, 1951, in Albany, NY, Pamela was a remarkable individual who left an indelible mark on those who had the privilege of knowing her.

Pamela was a talented musician and artist, reflected in her educational pursuits. Graduating from Bethlehem Central High School in 1969, Pamela performed the lead in the senior play, Oklahoma, as well as being the lead voice in an award-winning choir. The highlight of her choir presence was starring before a sold-out show at New York City’s Carnegie Hall, a performance captured on vinyl. Her spectacular voice was known as being of “perfect pitch” and was quite the draw. Her artistic interest led her to continue her education at Baldwin Wallace College in Berea, OH, where she earned a bachelor’s degree in Art in 1973. This foundation in the arts would serve as a springboard for her expressive talents in both music and real estate.

Pamela initially pursued a professional singing career that garnered admiration from many. Her passion for music was ultimately complemented by a successful later career in real estate. As a Mayflower descendant, Pam had a knack for finding her clients properties that were hidden gems nestled in the Seacoast’s most sought after communities, driving business as an agent of DeWolfe Realty Company in Portsmouth, NH. Pam’s crown jewel real estate acquisition, though, was her own private property that her husband, David, and she acquired, after relocating to Dover, NH. A property with unique and long family ties dating back to the 1600’s, it would serve as the perfect home for raising a family.

Fully invested in her children’s budding lifestyles, Pamela was well known for taking command of the local Dover South Little League concession stand, volunteering for 7-years. She masterfully built out the supply chain, helping the league become cash rich, and a regular and sustainable destination for yearly tournament play. She also had a front row seat, watching her youngest son, Jonathan, who was a star catcher, represent Dover All-Stars in the 1995 State Championship series. And, what became par for the course, Pamela performed the “The Star Spangled Banner,” on opening day, to kick off the Little League season.

Pamela, dubbed, “the coolest mom,” by her children’s many visitors over the years, will have a legacy that lives on through her cherished family. As mentioned, she is survived by her beloved husband, David Amari; her sons, Bradley Amari and Jonathan Amari; and her grandson, Owynn Amari. They are grateful for the knowledge, warmth, love, and laughter she cultivated to enrich their lives.

Pamela is preceded in death by her father, Lowell H. Rich; her mother, Virginia Remington Rich; and her sister, Gretchen Rich. Their memories remain alive in the hearts of those she leaves behind, and she will be remembered not just for her vocal talents and professional achievements, but also for the kindness and compassion she shared with everyone she met. Her vibrant spirit will be deeply missed by family, friends, and the community she enriched throughout her life.

At Pamela’s request, services will be private and at the convenience of the family.